15 Signs Of A Man Who Has No Romantic Feelings For A Woman


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How do you know if a man is in love with you? How do you know if he wants to build a deeper relationship with you? Conversely, how do you know if a man has no love interest for you? If you’re hanging out with a guy and growing closer to each other, you might start to wonder how he feels about you.

The hardest thing in a new relationship is knowing if the other person really cares about you. Men are generally harder to read and it can be really hard to tell if they have feelings for you.

So you’ve been dating this guy for a while and you feel like it’s going well without it living up to your expectations, what do you do? Do you continue to give the relationship time and energy? It’s not that you weren’t interested, on the contrary, you are genuinely interested in making this relationship work, but you sense that he may not be as invested as you are.

Maybe also you have a friendly relationship with a man and you would like to take the relationship to another level. Friendships between men and women often hide a certain ambiguity and you would like to know if the other also has feelings for you.

Either way, if you start to question whether a man has feelings for you, you’ll either start to feel like everything he does or doesn’t do is a sign that he doesn’t. is not very interested in you. Conversely, you may interpret every sign as evidence that he is interested in you and build a script filled with expectations that may never come true.

“Better not to rush to declare your love until you are certain that this love will be shared. –George

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How do you know if a man has no feelings?

A few weeks ago, I wrote an article about the  signs that a man is romantically interested in you . This article is very popular so I decided to make another one, but this time with the signs that he is not interested in you. If you’re struggling to tell whether this man is interested in moving the relationship forward or not, here are 15 signs a man isn’t romantically interested in you.

1- You must initiate all conversations.

Yes, he may be nervous and intimidated by you because he has feelings and is afraid of revealing himself too quickly. It’s a possible option, but in general, if he wants to invest in a serious relationship, he will want to know as much as possible about you and he will seek to establish contact without waiting for you. If you have to initiate all the conversations and put in all the effort, that’s a sure sign that he’s not looking to invest himself in a romantic relationship with you.

2- He flirts with other women in front of you.

If a man, whether he’s a friend or a date, and he hasn’t let go of his flirtatious behavior with other women, chances are he’s not really invested in the relationship the way you are. you are or just sees you as a friend. He may be trying to make you jealous, but that’s more feminine behavior. A man who wants to get involved and build a lasting romantic relationship with you will tend to put his attention on what he covets, therefore on you.

3- He doesn’t seem to care about you when you flirt with other men.

In retaliation for his flirtatious behavior , you start flirting with other men and he doesn’t even seem to care. He may be comfortable with your relationship and trust you, but it’s more likely that he doesn’t care what you do because he doesn’t want your relationship to get serious.

“Jealousy is one of the most human emotions. You feel jealous when you think you’re going to lose a relationship you really care about.

– Terri Orbuch, relationship expert

4- He never asks you out.

If every date is your idea and he doesn’t offer any suggestions for going out or even just watching TV together on a Saturday night, he’s not invested enough in the relationship. I suggest that you put the rule of 3 into practice. After 3 proposals, if this man does not offer anything afterwards, if he does not come to you, it means that he is not lovingly interested in you. I personally use this rule in reverse to find out if a woman is interested in me. Lack of reciprocity is often a clear sign that someone is not interested in you.

5- You have the impression that he does not listen to you.

When you are together, which is not very often the case, you feel like you are on another planet or that his attention is not directed towards you. Does he listen? Who knows! If you feel it isn’t, you’re probably right. It’s best to find someone if you feel like they’re not listening to you.

6- He does not introduce you to his friends.

A guy who has no interest in pursuing a relationship will not invite you to meet his friends. If he’s never introduced you, know that he might not want them to meet you. He may be shy about the kind of people he hangs out with, but he may just not want his friends to meet the person he hangs out with.

7- You only see each other when it works for him.

When you set a date, he never makes concessions to give you time and always puts his work, friends and family first. Although it seems noble and loyal at first, it gets pretty boring after a while and you might start to feel like you aren’t a priority for him in his life.

8- He doesn’t try hard to get your attention.

If a man doesn’t make a fool of himself, at least once in a while to try to get your attention, he may not care if he’s capable of it. It’s hard to hear, but men have clear signs that he’s interested in a woman. Wanting to be close to you and trying to get your attention are always at the top of the list.

9- You wonder about the future of the relationship.

If you still feel like he’s not invested in the relationship, it’s time to consider your options. When we wonder too often about the future of a relationship, it is often a clear sign that this relationship will not materialize. Take your pick and go find a man who wants to be with you and who deserves your time, energy, and affection.

10- He ignores your calls and responds late to your messages.

Everything seems to be fine when you’re together, but you don’t hear from her for days. It does not return your calls. He is not available. He calls when he wants to talk, but he won’t answer you, no matter what  ways  you try to get him to react. One thing is for sure, if he wanted to talk to you and was interested in you, he would pick up the phone or respond to your messages quickly.

One of the surest signs that someone likes you is a quick response to your messages. This is a sign that the other person is excited to receive your messages and wants the conversation to continue. This demonstrates that responding to you is a priority, even above other commitments.

11- He will avoid setting a time for another date.

You’ve been on a few dates, but when it comes time to set up a next date, he gets cold, doesn’t want to commit and always pushes back. If he seems to be too busy by the end of time. You can give him the benefit of the doubt, but he’s more than likely not interested in you. Always keep in mind the following sentence: someone who really wants something will find a solution, someone who doesn’t will will find an excuse.

12- He only calls you for sex.

He may not pick up the phone when you call, but he remembers who you are when he wants to find a hookup to meet his needs. If you can’t read his intentions beyond the bedroom, that’s a sure sign that he won’t be looking to move the relationship in the direction you’d like. If a guy has feelings for you, he’ll appreciate many aspects of the relationship and he’ll ask you out.

13- He does not try to sleep with you.

Contrary to the previous point, this man does not even try to get you into bed. If he just hangs out with you, is happy to hang out with you, but isn’t interested in taking your relationship further physically, maybe he just wants to be friends, but he’s more likely not seeing it going anywhere and not being emotionally involved with you. If he’s a good guy, it’s also possible that he doesn’t want to hurt you emotionally knowing he won’t want to go beyond a modern friendship.

14- He did not commit himself to you.

If he’s dating other women and hasn’t committed to you yet, this could be a warning that he doesn’t want to formalize your relationship. If you see him with another woman in public, don’t panic and take the time to talk to him about your relationship expectations. Don’t be surprised if he says he’s not interested in a long-term relationship right now.

15- He is mean.

Look, if a guy treats you like shit, you’re the one not getting the not-so-subtle messages. Take your pride and go find someone who will be nice to you and love you for who you are.