Being madly in love is one of the most magical experiences in a person’s life. We ask ourselves more and more questions when we meet a new person:
Will it last or not?
Is it the right person or not?
Are we compatible?
Could this be my soul mate?
You don’t always know if you are made for each other. Sometimes it’s just enough to take a step back and open your heart to what’s in front of you.
Discover 7 signs that indicate you are destined to be together:
1. YOU LAUGH TOGETHER.
It is completely natural to be silly. You can tease yourself. Laughter is always present in your relationship. Often, this kind of relationship starts with a friendship. You like yourself enough to be yourself. It is a healthy environment. If you can laugh at yourself, with your partner, without holding back, you have something few people are privileged to have.
“No one can be your sun, moon or stars until you have your own world.
2. YOU ARE NOT AFRAID OF DISAGREEMENT.
You know that if you argue, your partner will listen to you and not reject you. He takes you seriously, even if he thinks you’re wrong.
3. YOU MAY BE VULNERABLE.
When you open up, you live authentically. You are real and natural. There is beauty in accepting your flaws and those of the other. Sharing your stories with your partner is liberating. It is in this vulnerability that true love flourishes. If you can say what’s on your mind without feeling judged or criticized, that person is a gatekeeper.
“What happens when people open their hearts? They are better.
4. YOU FEEL YOURSELF WHEN YOU’RE WITH.
You don’t feel like you have to be careful what you’re going to say; you are not embarrassed or anxious.
There’s no manual for relationships, but these signs will help you get started. Your heart will tell you if you’ve found the right person. As psychologist Carl Jung said ,
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed. »
5. YOU RESPECT EACH OTHER.
Mutual appreciation requires a certain level of trust and respect. Respect requires honesty. The truest form of love is how you relate to another person in a relationship. In this state of respect, you share things that you wouldn’t tell anyone. Respect is earned. When you are in a secure relationship, you have found your partner.
“The day you put someone on a pedestal, they’ll look down on you. The trick is to respect each other. “~Teresa Mummert
6. YOU ELEVATE EACH OTHER.
You show the best possible versions of yourselves to the other. You become explorers and adventurers to find ways to bring joy to each other. You accept everything without feeling judged. It is in this kind of relationship that the best is reinforced. If your relationship is based on mutual admiration and inspiration, you have found a jewel in your life.
7. YOU ARE NOT JALOUS.
You want to spend time with each other, but you also need a large space. You are not afraid to take him out with his friends. You let your partner have their own life and hobbies. There is no codependency or possessiveness. You want to be with each other, but it’s important to have freedom of expression and separate interests.
“Uncertain people eclipse your sun because they are jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark starless nights. ~Shannon L. Alder