Single, are you desperate to find the right person? But do you really have to look… Love cannot be chased, it is attracted and I will demonstrate it to you, because the more you run after it, the more it escapes and gives way to neurosis, which is easily caught. !
It is the first instinct to seek, because you have been told “seek and you will find”, except that this adage does not apply to love. Indeed, the more you strive to find it, the more it escapes you because you see time passing and no one by your side. You have no control over the day and time when you will meet the one who will allow you to found a home, because the only control you have is over yourself: radiate and you will attract a sun! Be impatient and you will attract the first passerby and your relationship will be based on the imbalance of despair, content with what neurosis has given you. Neurosis? It’s the affective imbalance that pushes you into a bottomless void that you desperately flee and that catches up with you even more when the relationship has failed. Did you notice the title? Finding the RIGHT person, not finding someone. You are looking for a companion or companion, not “company”!
The RIGHT person is the one who corresponds to you in all respects and who resembles you rather than falling into the belief that extremes attract and that there is always one who dominates. The extremes always end up repelling each other while birds of a feather flock together and for eternity! As for dominating the other, you will end up despising them and if you are the rug, you will automatically be trampled. First of all, don’t look for love, it will come to you when you least expect it. And to start, are you ready? Another important point: love, will you be able to recognize it? Do you know what this is ? This is the CRAC:
C ontrust: you have confidence in yourself, fulfilled single person that you were, and you meet someone who has confidence in her/him and this confidence is also reciprocal.
R espect: you respect yourself, your new friend also respects each other and you respect each other.
A dmiration: You admire the person you met and who also admires you (we are talking about admiring and not adulating).
C omplicity: which is based on history, because the more you know each other, the more you love each other and sex is fulfilling.
Now that the scene is set, that you know what love is and above all that you must choose a person who has the same beliefs, the same values, the same education, the same vision of the couple in addition to an attraction physical, all allowing you to see your feelings develop, here is what you must anchor in your memory: Every second that passes brings you closer to the right person and every day you work on yourself, you work on your future couple and the another person too. Because, you will meet someone at the same level of balance as you and all the work you have done, each on your side, will represent as many reasons to get along well instead of arguing. If you don’t have power over when you meet the right person, you do, sir, by meeting a woman you like. And you, Madam, you also have it by keeping your eyes open and reacting nobly when a man approaches you.
The Universe takes care of putting people who match each other on the right path, when they are both ready. If you still dabble in neurosis, you will attract a neurotic person. If you have worked on yourself to be well in your celibacy, you will attract the one who will also be happy single and therefore also happy to form a couple with you. This is what really depends on you: be happy with yourself before being happy together!