How do you know if a girl is emotionally manipulative?


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If you follow my philosophy of sentimental happiness through the articles that I publish daily or during the conferences that I organize each month, you know that I often refer to men who manipulate women as well as narcissistic perverts. It is true that we often associate this type of behavior with men. But gentlemen, I also know that many of you think that it works both ways and that women can also be cruel to you sometimes.

When someone writes to me to explain to me a painful story in which a woman manipulates her man, I try to answer precisely because I know that there is no article on my site in relation to this problem. He does not exist ? No it did not exist! Because I promised you a special file on the thorny subject of women who make their partners suffer and here it is today!

I know many of you are going through this and don’t know how to get out of it. So in addition to writing on the subject I also made a video that you will find just below. I invite you to listen to it carefully, to like it and to write to me to tell me about your situation or simply your encouragement.

Whether as a couple, after a breakup or during a phase of seduction, you can suffer from the behavior of the woman you like so much and become a bit like her “toy”. Narcissistic perverse manipulators are not all men and in this case we must therefore speak of narcissistic perverse manipulators. I am aware that society wants us to believe that only men are capable of doing hateful things in love life, yet women too are not free from blame  as this demonstrates . Indeed, they can make mistakes either inadvertently or voluntarily in order to make you suffer and prevent you from achieving happiness.

The phenomenon of manipulative women is not new, but more and more men tend to notice it and fall victim to it. Of course, we must not generalize, not all women act this way! If I wrote this article it is to help those who suffer in order to help them open their eyes, but it is quite possible to be happy together without seeing the evil everywhere. It is important to better understand what manipulation in love means, what it causes, but also to have the means to get out of it to raise your head and not let it control your whole life.

How do manipulative women behave?

Manipulation is forcing the other to do what you want in order to get what you want, be it money, power, sex, in love life several elements can push to act in this way. In most cases of manipulative women whose men called on my services to get out of their clutches, there was often this desire to control their man. That’s one of the things these types of women have in common, the desire to be in a position of power.

In very many cases, a woman who wishes to manipulate men does so because she has had a disastrous love experience and there is a form of revenge. After having been cheated on or beaten or abused, there is this deep desire not to relive this situation and to do everything so that a man never behaves in this way again. Manipulation is therefore a way of protecting oneself. I am in no way trying to excuse the behavior of these women towards you, because you are not responsible for her past, but I am explaining it to you so that you have answers to your questions.

Many women after meeting 1 or 2 dishonest men immediately say to themselves ”  all men are assholes  ” becoming a woman who plays a double game, who is insincere and who is selfish is not necessarily natural , her personal life may have pushed her to have this role. Many women explain to me that they have become like that because they have suffered too much and that men, in their eyes, deserve to know what being the victim of manipulation means.

A manipulative woman is a woman who gets men to have feelings quickly, get addicted in order to make them fall in love and bring them totally to their knees. Obtaining the feelings allows him to ensure their commitment and to control their minds and always bring them back regardless of his behavior.

Why does it hurt to be manipulated?

“Just dump her, it’s that simple” this sentence I often hear, your friends think it’s an easy situation to manage but as I tell you very often, the advice of relatives is not the best in this situation. Their support is important, but when it comes to advice or the techniques to use, you should rather rely on an experienced coaching professional and not on men or women who are not objective in their analyses.

The problem when one is manipulated by a woman is that one is precisely not able to take a decision as radical as separation, either because one does not want to stand up to this woman that we either love because we are afraid of suffering even more. For men who are not in this situation it may seem absurd because this problem can be resolved very quickly, but you are not in your normal state very often we use the term “lost” to define what we feel when female manipulation is in action.

Among men, pride holds a preponderant place, we often want to show that we are the one who “directs” the couple, who can assert himself. But when we know we are being manipulated and we are powerless in the face of this situation, our ego takes a hit, we tell ourselves that the woman we love is lying to us, playing with us, intentionally hurting us and therefore acts as a real stab in the back.

It is enough to have had the idea of ​​a project with her, the desire to build a solid story to fall from above and find it difficult to raise your head. Most people who criticize men in your situation have never experienced it and allow themselves to make judgments that are not necessary. It is completely normal and legitimate to suffer because of these manipulative women.

Those who will read this article in search of advice have very strong feelings for their half, and imagined a future, always imagine a future with her and it is love that hurts more than manipulation. You blame yourself for holding on to her, for forgiving her gestures, her inappropriate words, you would like to be able to regain control but part of you continues to believe in her change and hopes that she will become the perfect woman. Hope or rather despair makes you suffer because you no longer know what decision to make. You say to yourself “I love my wife even if she makes me suffer”.

I am talking about sentimental pain but there is also physical pain. Narcissistic manipulators do not hesitate, in some cases, to use violence and mistreat their man other than by words. In this case it is no longer manipulation because we are no longer in a subtle psychological framework, it is an aggression neither more nor less!

How to fight against a woman who plays with feelings?

In order to get out of the clutches of a woman who manipulates us, we must first realize that she is not totally sincere and that there is an obstacle to love, it is not so simple that that and many men do not know it or discover it too late. But you’re not, how do I know? You are currently reading this article which proves that you are taking steps to get better and get out of it and I can only congratulate you. You see, you are capable of making decisions that go in the right direction and that will have a positive impact on your life, so you have to keep this momentum going and see things through!

I’m not always in the negative you know and I know how to recognize when men and women give themselves the means to improve their daily lives and that’s why I fight every day so that you can achieve your goals and do so that you don’t live in these toxic relationships anymore

The first rule is not to feel guilty. The strength of the manipulators just like the manipulators for that matter consists precisely in making people believe that you are at fault, that their behavior is due to yours. As a result, you blame yourself and find excuses for him even for things for which you are absolutely not responsible. You want to give your best, but no matter what you can do, it’s never enough.

You want her to change by showing your best side but it doesn’t work. You are not guilty. Neither I nor anyone else can say it’s your fault, however, if you don’t act and if you don’t give yourself the means to recover, you shouldn’t blame only the one who hurts you.

There is usually a big problem of self-confidence, as said before, when you have to go through this situation. You don’t accept yourself, you think she’s too good for you and you have to play with a man all the time bending over backwards to satisfy her every need. The first thing will be to rebuild your morale of steel and regain confidence. For this I invite you not to read but to devour all the articles in the category like this one to find out  how to build a more stable romantic relationship .

Thanks to these you will be able to have a clear strategy. I’m not going to tell you “Drop it and everything will be better” I know that for the moment it’s too difficult a decision to make and that very often the breakup does not help anything on the contrary, just like the break in the couple . However, with time and the necessary personal investment, you will be able to make the decision that is best for you.

Asserting yourself in a relationship and showing character will help you stop being a puppet that she manipulates as she pleases, you will become again who you were or who you need to be, that is say a man who does not let himself be done. But for that you have to act on your side. You have to accept that saying “no” or having other priorities doesn’t mean being mean to her, even if it doesn’t make her happy. One of the issues that explains the fact that narcissistic perverse manipulators have power over their companion is that men do not dare to answer them, but bringing her down from her cloud and showing her that you are not acquired is essential to  save the relationship .